Principle #9 – How To Naturally Create Boundaries By Unapologetically Being Yourself

Limitless Freedom Method

You’re here today because most likely you’re living your less-than-best life. And that’s okay. Because we can fix that. 

I have developed a methodology called the Limitless Freedom Method. The main goal of the Limitless Freedom Method is to help you reconnect to your inner wisdom so that you can pinpoint exactly what you want and create the right mindset to manifest your dreams.

This is a revolutionary way to experience freedom in the most spectacular kind of way.

Within this methodology is 10 easy-to-apply principles. Today we’re going to go over Principle #9, How To Naturally Set Boundaries by Unapologetically Being Yourself.

People Are Going To Be In Awe But…

People are going to be in awe of you for following your dreams, you’ll be in awe of yourself for making this happen for yourself.

Every time that I’ve went after a dream of mine, I had the same thing happen to me over and over again.

Yay, but Halle what about this….

There is always going to be someone that doesn’t believe that you’re making the right choices for your life.  They might believe that you’re making a mistake and that you can’t be successful with your dream. 

In other words, there will always be someone who criticizes what you’re trying to accomplish. 

It’s going to happen. Don’t let that stop you from moving forward.

It’s Not You, It’s Their Insecurities

If you have any doubts or limiting beliefs, get them out of your head because you are on the ride of a lifetime and you have a fast pass to living your best life.

Remember, when people give you unsolicited “advice”, most often, they are actually bringing up their own insecurities.

• They are the ones who are uncomfortable with being vulnerable. 
• They are the ones who like to stay within their comfort zone.
• They are the ones who aren’t willing to take a chance to live their best life.
• They are the ones struggling to figure out who they want to become.

Once I understood that, I was able to not take it personally.  I understand how this might get in the way though, but you can’t let it.

Accepting Yourself For Who You Are…

It wasn’t until later in my life that I started to feel comfortable in my own skin.  Let me tell you a story that happened when I lived back in Wisconsin. It was a major turning point for accepting myself for who I am.

I was going out with a group of new ladies for a night out on the town. It was our time to let loose as we were all mothers to young children.  One of the ladies asked me something and I proceeded to tell them a story. I didn’t hold back and even dropped a few “choice words” to amplify the story.

At the end of the story, one of the ladies literally said “Whoa, you used like four swear words to tell your story, do you think you might want to tone it down a bit?”

And then I replied, “If you can’t handle me being my authentic self, I’m good with that but don’t try to tell me how to live my life so that it makes you feel more comfortable.” (Boundaries…)

We agreed to disagree, and I was okay that no new friendship with this particular person would blossom from that night out.

I tell you this story because she wasn’t someone who would accept me for who I was, she wasn’t and would never be my people.

On a positive note, one of the other ladies that I did connect with that night has been in my life ever since and we’re amazing friends…and you guessed it, she has no issue with me being authentically me.

You’ll Naturally Be Able To Set Boundaries By Doing This…

The biggest piece of advice that I can give you is recognize that this is your life to live.  You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone you don’t want to.

Live by your rules.

Live authentically.

Unapologetically be you.

By doing this, you naturally set boundaries for anyone who doesn’t support you or your vision.

If you offend someone by being yourself, they aren’t your people.  On the flip side, if you inspire someone for being you…these are your people.

How Authenticity Brings You Success

I can remember when I was new to blogging.  In a nutshell, blogging is writing about your journey and putting yourself out there.  It’s about being vulnerable and allowing others into your world.

For the first few years, I aimed to please everyone under the sun.  I didn’t want to offend anyone, and I wrote what I thought my readers wanted from me.  I wasn’t writing as my authentic self and I struggled to get a loyal following. I struggled to succeed.

Then there was my blogging friend Steph.  Steph was wildly successful. She was unapologetically herself and even let a few f-bombs drop from time to time. She wasn’t afraid to stir the pot and her readers loved her for it because she was authentic and relatable. 

At this point I recognized that in order to be successful I needed to be authentic. There was no way around this. I had to get comfortable in my own skin and charge forward being me.  Once I did this, I became a super successful blogger, not only with my following but financially too. 

This was one of the most defining moments of my life. What I was missing for far too long was permission to be myself. 

Permission To Be Yourself

If you’re reading this (which I know you are), permissions been granted to be your authentic self. I’ll be here to validate this for you.  I’ll be here to support you in your journey.

The world needs you to show up authentically.  You are unique and that in itself is your gift to share.

Don’t be afraid to be yourself.  Only then will you reap the rewards that follow.

You have all the tools you need to show up for yourself and start living your best life.

Surround yourself with those who will support you and put boundaries up for those who won’t.

I believe in you!  Believe in yourself.

Ok, so if you like this post be sure to check out the others in this series. Also, I’ve got some exciting news for you…

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Here’s the scoop. I’m working feverishly to get this program done (***SPOILER ALERT*** my fourth book, The Limitless Freedom Method – Reconnect to Your Inner-self, Pinpoint Exactly What You Want, Live Your Dream Life,  is coming your way)!!! Although I don’t have the exact date for you, I’ll shoot you an email when it’s ready. How’s that sound?

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See You Next Week!

That’s it! See you next time for Principle #10 – How To Take Action And Experience Total Freedom. Ok, you have done so much work, now let’s get your mind ready for the biggest change it’s probably seen in awhile!